A lot of people assume that swingers can’t possibly be in a loving relationship as part of a marriage. This couldn’t be farther from the truth. In fact, the only relationships that work well in a swinging situation are healthy, loving relationships. Without complete trust in one another, swinging is not going to work. Here are just a few ways that swinging can help the health of your relationship.
In order for swinging to be viable, you must have trust in your partner and vice versa. Without this, swinging will destroy the relationship. It’s important to remember that sex and love are not one in the same, and enjoying sex with someone other than your partner does not mean that you don’t love them. Swingers have this figured out, and their marriages are healthy as a result.
Allowing your spouse to experience things that they want is an important part of any relationship. When you love your partner, you want to make them happy. In the swinging world, this reigns supreme. If your partner wants to try a threesome, a swinger would be more open to this. This creates a tighter bond with your spouse, and you get pleasure from knowing that they are being pleasured in another way.
A necessary part of any relationship is the creation of boundaries that can not be crossed. With swingers, this is vital before they can play. Since they are used to setting boundaries and used to dealing with temptation, the relationship is healthier and stronger than that of those who don’t verbalize this.